Just because you have an amazing connection with a person doesn't mean that person is divinely appointed to be in your life.
There are certain people who were not meant to stay within our life..But that doesn’t mean the relationship was a mistake..Definitely No!Especially if you both learned valuable lessons in life and relationships :)
Not every relationship lasts forever. It just means that your ex served his purpose in your life (and vice versa),In and the time came for you to part ways and move on.
Have you ever been in a relationship where you couldn’t be who you really are? Were there parts of your personality you felt like you had to tone down in order to make your partner comfortable?
In the right relationship, we are celebrated. Even our quirks are accepted, even loved.( Yes its not a big issue to him/her if you trim your armpits or you snore like hell).In the right relationship,you never have to apologize for or compromise who you are. We are talking of small quirks here.It is not bad if it is for a good change that you mutually agreed to better the love.
The beauty of breaking free in a wrong relationship is that you’re now free to be who you really are but :
Never blame him/her - Own your decision based on your feelings not his/her actions.Yes , your reaction might have sparked by his/her actions but ultimately the shape they take is completely your doing. Keep the emphasis on" I". "Im not happy" or "I want different things from a relationship" as opposed to "You dont make me happy" or "You just dont do it for me anymore".
Don't feel guilty - Go ahead and feel sad or uncomfortable but don't feel ashamed . You have a right to your vision for your own life. Don't let social pressure affect you even if friends start asking when you could get engaged. Dont live on other people's expectations.If you're heart is telling you he/she is not the right one for you..chances are.Ask God for clarity and direction.
If God is not holding the door open, or if He is closing that door, He has a good reason. He loves you and wants what is best for you. He has more information and wisdom than we do.Let go and trust that God always has your best interests at heart... ^__^
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