OFW : Buhay , Negosyo at Pusong Pinoy: Kabayan , Do you have a Storehouse?

OFW : Buhay , Negosyo at Pusong Pinoy: Kabayan , Do you have a Storehouse?:   In Deuteronomy 28:8, it says,   The Lord will command the blessing upon you in your storehouse… Remember what happened to Joseph in Egyp...

Stop being Poor! Leverage!

Stop being Poor! Leverage!

A man always prayed to Jesus so he could win the lotto. One day, Jesus appeared to him and said, “Ok, I’ll make you win the lotto but please, please… BUY A TICKET!” :p

Similarly most of us want to be rich. But the question is how badly we want it?

Do we do something about it?

We wonder why we are still poor after all the years spending in your job or abroad.

We may have born poor but if we die poor is our own responsibility. It is only the accumulation of our decisions from the past.

Kabayan , I urge you to pause and think for a while..will your job make you rich or financially well off?

Your Boss will get rich but not you. So don't be an employee forever. DREAM. Dare to change. Get out of our comfort zone.

Otherwise we cannot expect any improvement in our lives it will be a repetition of same days slowly aging you while we get poorer as the economy stumbles down.

Just like the man who keeps praying to be successful or financially free but does not have the action for his conviction.

If you want to get rich , look for the opportunities to EARN EXTRA INCOME around you.  You cannot rich just by wishing and praying. 

God will look for a channel to flow His blessings and that channel maybe in the form of stocks , bonds , or business.

It's all up to you but bottomline is God cannot help you if you do not exert any effort and considering TIME  we may have gotten old before we become a millionaire or maybe too late to see our kids or our parents have a good life.


We only have 24hrs each day so why not use the power of leveraging?

If I love you , will you change yor FB status?

A girl once asked his bf via PM " Can you change your status to " In a relationship ,please.."

The guy replied " Sorry , its not my style ..I believe that love..real love can be express not in FB terms but by a deeper understanding of each other

The girl felt rejected, as if a very sharp object suddenly pierced and bleeds her heart to death..the guy said its perfectly OK..its a mental thing.You are not rejected, It's just not my personality..

But the girl felt so sad the next morning she sent a PM to the guy saying she did'nt feel loved that it would be best not to further advance their relationship..

The guy was surprised but finally understood that it's a blessing in disguise--- it made way for greater opportunities for both of them to enjoy life and love...

And so it was that the sweetest memories will always be cherished..they are both grateful and appreciative for the wonderfully awesome moments they shared :)

Moral Lesson of the Story :  Determine as early as possible if your loved one is a die hard FB addict--it sure spells a capital D-I-S-A-S-T-E-R... :) *winks* but kiddin aside..

the best way to keep love is to

give it wings.Letting go is not really the

end of love; it is only the beginning of a

greater love. a love that time  alone

can understand...

We cant beg someone to stay if they

want to leave..we have to admit that love

doesnt give us the license to own a

person...

I guess great understanding and

selflessness is the key to such love

- an unconditional love.  It's when we

finally learn to say, "I want you to

be happy...♥

..and if by all means our happiness

is proudly seeing  "In a Relationship"..Yes or No..

 its entirely up to us to happily decide & stay in love with or without FB status..^_^

letting go :)

Just because you love the person doesn’t mean you have to be with the person. True love exists outside of the physical fabric of a relationship. This is just a form of expression of love, but in no way is the single definition of love.

I’ll end off this very short note with a final quote

There are things that we never want to let go of, people we never want to leave behind.

But keep in mind that letting go isn’t the end of the world, it’s the beginning of a new life... :)

Red Lotus Blossom Resting on A Pond

I aimed at a beautiful flower in the branches of a tall tree…

But I lost my balance & consequently fell in a pond…

I was hurting… My eyes were closed w/ tears…

But when I regained calmness, I saw many beautiful lotus floating around me…

This is life…

God makes you fall at times, to fill your life w/ good virtues.

Life takes away what you desire, to give you more than what you desired for.. 

Trust Him completely , pray with all your heart..

He is just completely molding your partner to be a better man.. =)

7 Strategies to Create Time to Things that Truly Matters

We , OFW's at one point of our life have been guilty in saying..“ I don’t have time”

Kung ang isang tao o ang isang pagkakataon ay mahalaga sa iyo, you will create time for it.

Patungkol man ito sa relasyon , sa negosyo o sa paglilingkod sa Diyos.

Kabayan paano mu ginugugol ang oras mu sa isang araw o ang mga araw sa isang linggo?

Here are some proven & tested tips for effective time management:

     1. Gumawa ng “ to-do-list or reminders ”. Maari itong gawin sa mobile , sa stick notes, sa desktop.

- upang maging mas prepared at organized tayo sa mga gawain natin sa buong araw at huwag natin itong makalimutan. Simple pero mabisang paraan na ipaalala sa atin ang mga dapat nating gawin

   2. Prioritize - Saan nauubos oras mu? Anu mga priorities mu? Huwag hayaan maubos o mailaan ang oras sa hindi naman ganun kahalaga o sa sobrang panunuod ng mga telenovela.

   3.  Learn to delegate—Recognize you can’t do it all.Ikaw ba ay si Superman o di kaya ay si Darna? Kaibigan, katangian ng isang makapangyarihang lider ang maayos na pag delegate ng isang gawain. Ito ay hindi lamang magbibigay sa yo ng karagdagang oras na maari mung gamitin sa mas mahahalagang mga gampanin.

   4.  Learn to say Yes or No.- make it a general rule not to say MAYBE. Be honest. 

        If you are already committed to something.  Politely & Honestly say NO. 

        Just that you don’t have to elaborate and you will save yourself from any pressure.

   5.  Set time limit or task – kadalasan may mga taong di nila namamalayang nauubos na ang kanilang oras sa pag FB o pagsagot ng email , paglaro ng mga online games , panonood ng mga animes, pakikipagchikahan atbp.Make self imposed deadlines.Set aside particular times of day to read or listen and respond to email and phone calls,browse FB,skype,ym,etc.Avoid Procrastination .finish work on time, we should have a sense of urgency!

   6. Take time –offs -  schedule fun times ,dates ,road trips etc. It is essential that we rest our body & mind to take time-offs so we can feel more vibrant , recharge , refreshed & ready to embark on our task.

Some Relationships are Temporary...♥

Just because you have an amazing connection with a person doesn't mean that person is divinely appointed to be in your life.

There are certain people who were not meant to stay within our life..But that doesn’t mean the relationship was a mistake..Definitely No!Especially if you both learned valuable lessons in life and relationships :)

Not every relationship lasts forever. It just means that your ex served his purpose in your life (and vice versa),In  and the time came for you to part ways and move on.

Have you ever been in a relationship where you couldn’t be who you really are? Were there parts of your personality you felt like you had to tone down in order to make your partner comfortable?

In the right relationship, we are celebrated. Even our quirks are accepted, even loved.( Yes its not a big issue to him/her if you trim your armpits or you snore like hell).In the right relationship,you never have to apologize for or compromise who you are. We are talking of small quirks here.It is not bad if it is for a good change that you mutually agreed to better the love.

The beauty of breaking free in a wrong relationship is that you’re now free to be who you really are but :

Never blame him/her - Own your decision based on your feelings  not his/her actions.Yes , your reaction might have sparked by his/her actions but ultimately the shape they take is completely your doing. Keep the emphasis on" I". "Im not happy" or "I want different things from a relationship" as opposed to "You dont make me happy" or "You just dont do it for me anymore".

Don't feel guilty -  Go ahead and feel sad or uncomfortable but don't feel ashamed  . You have a right  to your vision for your own life. Don't let social pressure affect you even if friends start asking when you could get engaged. Dont live on other people's expectations.If you're heart is telling you he/she is not the right one for you..chances are.Ask God for clarity and direction.

If God is not holding the door open, or if He is closing that door, He has a good reason. He loves you and wants what is best for you. He has more information and wisdom than we do.Let go and trust that God always has your best interests at heart... ^__^

God can re-write your ♥ story!

Most of us when we were kids used to ask our parents to read or tell us love stories.

Romeo&Juliet!The Notebook!Serendipity,Julio at Julia & more.. :)

Looking back our life has made a pretty story too especially on our relationships with the past people in our lives.

Sometimes we find ourselves in a worse situation, regretting our actions and there are some decisions in life which have changed us completely.

We cannot rewind the hands of time ------ this is an inevitable truth.

But you know what? When we came to a point in time in our life where we feel so dirty , ugly ,and completely hopeless that we have already given up , God still doesn’t give up on us. That’s how much He loves us.

And in a blink of an eye  God can re-write your story--- yes even your love story!!!

Have you found your prince charming yet or has it become a jumping frog?

Have you found the one? But let it slip away?

Have you just gone out of a relationship or still healing from the wounds of the past?

Don't give up hope on finding that someone special-- whether you are in your late 20’s or 40’s .Don't lose hope.

Believe in the faith to God over the faith to man!

My friends. Ask God for strength...God is still writing new pages..new characters..and new chapters ..and our brightest  life will yet to be unfold right before our very eyes..in His perfect time. ^___^